How should you address the issue?
Ask questions
Try to gain a better understanding of what happened and why they acted the way they did.
For example, if it was due to being cyberbullied themselves previously or because they did not like the other party.
Let them know bullying is unacceptable
If you realise that your child is the cyberbully, it is important to let them know that bullying is not right. Remind them of the importance of values such as empathy and kindness, and to show care and support for others.
You can use I-Messages to discuss the situation and let your child know that you are unhappy with their behaviour.
For example, you can say:
Let them know there are consequences for their behaviour
To make amends for their mistakes, you can get your child to apologise to the victim. There can also be other consequences such as taking away their phones for a specified duration of time. Be firm and follow through the consequences that you explained.
Monitor your child’s online activities
To ensure that your child does not continue or repeat this behaviour of bullying, you can keep tabs on their activities online, such as their text messages, social media posts, and interactions with others.
You can make use of available safety applications and services to keep track of them online and restrict certain activities.
Reach out for extra support
If necessary, you can approach your child’s school to seek additional support and guidance for them.
